Caveat: This post is for TMC readers who have kids heading to college this Fall, or may already be there. For the rest of my wonderful readers, TMC will be back on track in September with lots of MindFULL Creative ideas to share!
I’m gonna make this post short and sweet. My bandwidth is rather narrow these days. With my daughter’s imminent departure for college fast approaching, my chest is tight, my heart is full and my eyes are brimming with the tears of pride and sadness. Thank goodness for my friends and family who have walked the path before us. Their support, wisdom and loving kindness have been invaluable.
This weekend, Auntie Karen and Niece Miriam visited. A rising college Junior, Miriam had much to share. One of the best pieces of advice she got and passed on: “You’re gonna have bad days. Just like you did at home. And it doesn’t mean it’s the wrong fit or anything major. It’s just a bad day in a different place.”
There is so much info out there, so as we say, “Take the best and leave the rest” — I’m sharing two of the best saving graces I have received over the last few months: Letting Go (Fifth Edition): A Parents’ Guide to Understanding the College Years, by Karen Levin Coburn and an article, written by an old friend’s darling, smart and honest son, James Keane, about his freshman year at Northwestern. http://time.com/3896431/to-the-freshman-class-of-2015-its-ok-if-everythings-great-is-a-lie/
In my mind, and on my desktop (Well before DT used it), The Rolling Stones song
You Can’t Always Get What You Want keeps playing. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8zgAWHRJC1Y
It’s a MindFULL reminder…with dear friends, honest resources, and a whole lot of Faith, ya get what ya need.
How are you MindFULLY navigating kids and college? Let us know!
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I am right there with you, Sister!
I LOVE YOU! When are you taking Addie to NYC?
Date: Mon, 25 Jul 2016 14:33:09 +0000 To: firstname.lastname@example.org
Very nice read Robin. Wishing you, Addie & your husband the best during this transition time. You mentioned the book, Letting Go. I’ll have to look that up. Hardest time of being a mom for me was when each girl left for college. Learning to “let go”… painfully difficult. Certainly gets easier as time passes. And happy for them, watching them mature and gain independence. But knew when my daughters left home, that daily life would change significantly, but it did in more ways than I could have imagined. Thanks for sharing your thoughts, will be thinking of you all and sending love and support your way!